by Melissa Alvarez
Llewellyn Worldwide author of 365 Ways to Raise Your Frequency
Love is one of the most important emotions that we experience on this realm of existence. The love that we know here goes with us when we return to the Other Side. Love exists in all things, between all types of people, without regard to physical appearance or where they live. There is romantic love, platonic love, and the love of family and friends. Each type of love is important because love touches us on a soul level.
Frequency is the energy of the Universe that exists in all things. Each one of us, as unique spiritual beings, has our own personal vibration, called frequency. If you connect your frequency with the powerful emotions of love, then you can elevate your core soul essence to great heights. You will experience growth in all areas of your life because you’re approaching it with an elevated frequency of love.
Since Valentine’s Day is today, let’s look at some ways that you can increase the frequency of the romantic relationship between you and your significant other. By implementing these actions you will not only gain a deeper connection with one another, and improve your relationship, but you will feel balanced, centered and more focused in your interactions with one another, which will also enhance your personal spiritual growth.
Go Back to the Beginning
If you’ve been dating or married for a while then you may feel that the energy in your relationship is one of the same of day-to-day routine. The high frequency energy that surrounded the two of you in the beginning may have lowered. To get out of this pattern and give your relationship frequency a strong boost, go back to the beginning. Think of the time when you first connected with one another. Do you remember what that feels like? Revisit events that you shared through discussing them with each other or by going to the places you used to frequent when you first met.
Make an Effort to Please
To elevate your relationship frequency, make a concentrated effort to do something nice for your significant other. And if you’re on 
the receiving end, make sure that you express your gratitude for what your partner has done for you. This can be as simple as cooking a special meal, gifting them with a poem or taking them to a special place that they like. Whatever you do for your partner, make sure it comes from the heart, without expecting something in return, for that will not only raise your relationship frequency but your personal frequency as well.
Eliminate Negativity
When things aren’t going well in your romantic relationship, it’s easy to become negative and blame one another for the problems that are happening. Release all negativity surrounding your relationship and start today on a new page, a clean slate. Take responsibility for your part in where things are going wrong and work hard to fix them instead of blaming your partner. When you eliminate negativity from your relationship, the frequency surrounding it will automatically rise.
Once you’ve returned to the roots of your relationship, are making more of an effort to make each other happy and have eliminated negativity, you will often find that your love blossoms and the soul connection between the two of you deepens. Your love relationship is strong and the energy surrounding the two of you is positive and in forward motion. You’ve successfully ignited a frequency boost in your love life.
About Melissa Alvarez
Melissa Alvarez is an author, intuitive coach, clairvoyant advisor, public speaker and radio show host. Writing as Ariana Dupré, she is an award winning author of paranormal romantic suspense and writes metaphysical nonfiction under her real name. She has appeared on numerous radio shows as a guest or host as a psychic, author and paranormal expert. Visit Melissa online at http://www.MelissaA.com, http://www.365WaysToRaiseYourFrequency.com, or http://www.APsychicHaven.com.
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Thanks so much for having me here today! I’ll check in throughout the day in case anyone has questions about frequency. Happy Valentine’s Day everyone!
Smiles,
Melissa Alvarez
I absolutely love all three bulletpoints! I am celebrating V-Day today for the first time since 2010, making this my 2nd overall V-Day celebration (in 25 years!). What is very awesome is that I was talking to my significant other just YESTERDAY about our past and the beginning of our relationship, and I even played the first voicemail I received
So seeing that bulletpoint made me say “aahhhh!” with excitement. Also, I agree that today should be a day free of negativity. We too often take eachother for granted and easily slip into unnecessary arguments. Today, I agree with you, that negativity should take the back seat. And in my opinion, by eliminating negativity, we will be able to arrange moments to please eachother and more positivity will definitely please both of us <3 Thanks for this blog post, Melissa! You were DEFINITELY on my brain wave 
Hi Patrick! Happy Valentine’s Day to you too. I’m glad you’re celebrating the holiday again! I’m glad you enjoyed the post and I appreciate that you took the time to leave such a detailed response. I hope you and your significant other have a wonderful day full of positivity, light and laughter. Have fun!
Smiles,
Melissa