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American dreams become lost if $4 billion suit succeeds

19 Oct

As a current alumnus of Milton Hershey School, I feel compelled to blog about the current $4 billion dollar lawsuit against my alma mater and home away from home.

I recently received an email from the President’s office at MHS indicating that a lawsuit was filed by a former student, but the letter was not addressing the student it was directing its focus on a man by the name of Fred Fouad, founder of Protect the Hersheys’ Children, INC also called PHC.

PHC mission is

…ending childcare incompetence at the MHS Board and Administrative levels, assuring use of all Hershey Trust land and cash resources strictly for MHS children, removing MHS Board conflicts of interest, and creation of an MHS Board that is dedicated to the Hersheys’ child-saving mission.

The mission is taken from the PHC website under its mission section and when I read the last portion dealing with removing MHS Board conflicts of interest and creation of an MHS Board my mind just wants to hit the computer screen. I am well aware that conflict of interests should be removed, but the total removal of the board seems far fetched when the point of MHS is to save children from poverty. How can an organization operate without a board that knows its task that the children come first? Futhermore, how can someone abolish the creation of a board when that board is made up of graduates from MHS?

President Colistra continues in his letter to Alumi with

Fred Fouad, a disgruntled alumnus who has spent the past decade seeking to undermine the School’s strong record of serving children in need. In published comments, Fouad has sought to distance himself from this legal action, suggesting he did not know what was in the complaint. That’s despite the fact that he drafted this action and threatened the School with it two years ago.

Now, it is obvious that the President wants to get across that Fouad is angry against the school, but I am interested in why. Well, there is no indication in the letter what MHS  may have done to Fouad personally, but it does say he was a former student and during that time kids left the school. I remember while attending MHS that kids left the school periodically. Mostly, kids that enrolled within the first couple of months or the first year left because the pressure of homesickness drew them away. This homesickness came from the parents and from the students.

One student specifically, came during my sophomore year and only stayed a few months. He was popular, loved the classes, and had a great time in his student home. My last memory of spending time with him was celebrating a birthday and having a small cake fight outside of the student home. A couple days after that I did not see him so I had asked our mutual friends where he’d gone. Turns out that he left the school because his mother missed him immensely. So, it wasn’t because the systematic institution in place at MHS that slashed the dreams of this child, but the sure distance that homesickness creates between people who love each other.

After reading the letter from President Colistra, I began to research online of any articles indicating the lawsuit. Of course, four billion dollars would not go unnoticed by the press. According to PennLive.com, the lawsuit filed against MHS is from a former honor -roll student Cosme Cesar Escudero-Aviles and his mother Sylvia Aviles-Escudero. They are seeking actually $3 million and wants $4 billion for a foundation benefiting current and future MHS students, my intuition says is is for PHC since the article does indicate that the family has been “linked” to PHC.

In this article, the family is basing their claims on that

…officials made jokes about his ethnicity and did not assist him when he was harassed by other students. They further claim Cesar was removed from the school without due process and that his treatment was indicative of systemic problems at the residency school for at-risk youths.

Certainly, I was not there to witness these allegations, but I never encountered school faculty or administration on any level really targeting a student because of their ethnicity. I do know that when students are harassed like myself immense conditions were upheld. I remember being taunted at within the first two weeks of arriving to MHS. Students made claims against my homosexuality. They would ask me if I was gay and just did the same harassing routine that I experienced in public school. The point of my going to MHS was to get away from that bullying. Well, I was proactive and went to my houseparents and told them I was being picked on and bullied. They immediately took care of the situation. They called HomeLife and the main boy who was instigating the harassment was confronted. He later came up to me an apologized. Funny how karma works, a year later the left the school. So, I know that if harassment was apart of Cesar’s life at MHS, he should have told his houseparents his concerns. They all are trained in these areas so they know exactly what to do. I really felt safe after my harassment was eliminated.

I am not exactly sure if Cesar had due process in being kicked out of MHS since I was not there, but I am aware that the school administration takes action to review cases of prior history into account. They look at your behavior and academic success and place that against whatever violation you may have committed. This process is shown in the MHS documentary: Living the Legacy: The Untold Story of Milton Hershey School which you can watch the whole thing by going to my post: The sweet tales and tears of Milton Hershey School. A group of officials do sit down and discuss the pros and cons of the student and whether or not they are threatening to the MHS community.

Knowing the exact facts of the story is crucial and neither does the letter from the president or the article written on PennLive gives too much information of what exactly took place in regards to Cesar. But, what is shown in the article is that four billion dollars is half of the endowment that fuels Milton Hershey School. This greatly affects many students who do succeed at MHS because the school does give their students upon graduation, college scholarships. I know, personally, that if I could not receive my MHS continuing edcaution scholarship I would not be in Pittsburgh attending college. I would not be able to honor my family. Without MHS period, I would not be able to have the gumption to a pursue the dream of becoming America’s Future Talk Show Host.

For all those students who could not make it through MHS because of behavior or just pure homesickness know this; you can still talk to those who did graduate from MHS. You are never forgotten. You are still a person who experienced MHS. All alumni and participants of MHS know internally that the school has been founded upon pure love and that love still is in motion so if you have been cast back into the waters of poverty, choose to love yourself and people around you because soon the universe will hear your cries. Just like it heard the chocolate philanthropist nearly 100 years ago when he failed he started again. You can still flourish at great heights, it is just that you need to take the first step to change. And not be selfish in asking for billions of dollars like Cesar and his mother because that brings about pure negativity and won’t help others who need MHS to battle poverty.

There are many students at MHS that deserve to find themselves and their dreams, and be able to not worry financially about furthering their education. If this lawsuit against MHS succeeds and the school loses a good portion of money that keeps the house warm and cozy then many lives and spirits will be torn and the home created by Milton and Catherine Hershey will no longer be a playground for students to find the essence of the American dream.

For more information:

Milton Hershey School- is a cost-free, private, coeducational home and school for children from families of low income, limited resources, and social need. The School is funded by a trust established by Milton S. Hershey and his wife Catherine. Milton Hershey School offers a positive, structured home life year-round and an excellent pre-kindergarten through 12th grade education. Our vision focuses on building character and providing children with the skills necessary to be successful in all aspects of life.  www.mhs-pa.org

Protect the Hershey’s Children- is a not-for-profit corporation dedicated to the well-being of Milton Hershey School (MHS) students; i.e., the children and sole lawful heirs of Milton & Catherine Hershey. www.protecthersheychildren.org 

Other posts:

The sweet tales and tears of Milton Hershey School 

The sweet tales and tears of Milton Hershey School

9 Sep

I finally had the chance to watch the entire Milton Hershey School (MHS) documentary that Academy Award (R) winning documentary director and cinematographer, Cynthia Wade has so truthfully woven together. Depicting the lives of several MHS students from enrollment to graduation, this film captures not only the impact that the Hershey, Pennsylvania private-boarding school offers to low-income families, but it reveals the soul and light that becomes the students. They find themselves.  To commemorate 100 years of the Milton Hershey School, this documentary hit me hard as I connected with my own memories of those final days before graduation and to sympathize with student home rules, homesickness, and the pride it takes to join clubs and organizations much like the students in the film. This documentary is a true depiction of what a student and their family can go through, but nonetheless MHS is a once in a lifetime opportunity and absolutely rewarding for all the resources available to its students upon arriving to the school and departing after graduation.

I am happy to say that the full-length documentary Living the Legacy: The Untold Story of Milton Hershey School is now available at YouTube.com or you can watch the film below. 

For more information about Milton Hershey School, please visit the school website to get more information or APPLY ONLINE to enroll your child into the most life saving and sweetest school there is in the United States.

2010 Tribute

31 Dec

Since today is the last day of 2010, I would like to give thanks to some really special people in my life and look at some of the highlights of my 2010!

January- I spent the first seconds of the new year with my best friend and fashion expert Antoinette Reason at mutual friend Kassandra Johnson’s house for a New Year’s celebration! It was fun minus that Antie and I got lost on the way there and could not make that dang turn down the alley way. Not to mention, the weather was icy and snowing and Antie never drove a van before, so we did make it work. I pumped gas for the first time too!

February- Nothing much happened in this month, besides that I shared V-Day with friends, no one in particular (not saying a lover was not wanted, I am all for not being single, but I did spend it with those who cares and loves me ). Also the Freshman Show: February 25, 2010 case at Point Park was in this month. My dear and close friend Brianna Boyle choreographed “Master of Puppets.” It was absolutely extraordinaire, since I guided her a bit in decisions and the story line for the dancers. Okay, I cannot take all of the credit. She is really talented and I commend her for her accomplishments thus far.

March- Here, I was able to attend Justice through Journalism, a gala benefit for The Innocence Institute of Point Park University featuring author of The Innocent Man and The Firm, John Grisham. It was exciting to hear Grisham speak about exonerated men and how his books stir controversy. Hence the security being so tight and the mob that was outside of the building protesting against Grisham and his beliefs.  Also at the event, there were these marvelous paintings “Voices of Innocence” displaying real exonerated men that local Pittsburgh artist, Daniel Bolick created to depict the very emotions that these freed men go through by his creative use of color and line.

April- Probably my favorite month, besides October. Why? Because of course it is my birthday! Got some gifts and cards from my friends. Oh so nice, which by the way folks, I still have them! So I could use them against you when you all become rich and famous. Well on the day of my birthday, there was a dance called “Spring Fever” at Whim Nightclub. Haha, I do not remember much besides that I have a ticket stub to prove it. Actually, I have more than one, which kind of scares me,not to remember that night. Well, on the downside of my birthday, I got to go and choose my room for the 2010-2011 school year. UGH! What a con that was. Something deep down inside me told me that this year’s room arrangement was going to be another rotten apple. Oh well. I do not talk to my roommate and we make minimal attempt to communicate. Just how things are rolling, not my toilet paper! Starting as soon as I get back to school, the TP is hiding in my closet. PERIOD. I swear he eats it for every meal. Moving forward, this month has been really eventful. I actually went to my first Pittsburgh Pirates game and loved it. Awesome photographer, Lindsay Brandt invited me along with her awesome floor and roomies and then we left early because it was too damn cold! It was amazing regardless. This is also the end of my freshman year! Departing was hard, but so much took place, I could never forget how amazing the year unfolded itself.

May- Home for a week and headed to Boston, MA! This is probably the most riveting life changing experience I have ever made possible. I started my first internship at The Theater Offensive, and met a wonderful extended family. Current President of Milton Hershey School’s Alumni Association (MHSAA), Joanne Gagnon ’85 took me into her home with such love that I certainly would never forget an amazing woman! Knowing what she has done for me, I cannot help but to appreciate Milton Hershey School even more. The alumni of your school should reach out and help you achieve your deepest potential, and I am proud to say that Joanne did that for me. She did not know who I was or what I was like, but she had an open mind and an open heart that I could not have wished for a better host-family. Her husband John was an inspirational father figure  and it was really eye opening to stay with them as a family whose life is similar, but so different. I am certainly going to have to go back and visit!  Also in May, I visited Harvard University, and the academia certainly pours over the buildings and into the spirit of all those people visiting. Especially the parents who were giving their sons and daughters a tour of the University. I did buy a shirt and a mug from Harvard’s bookstore. Why not. Now thinking back, I did visit Salem while I was there, and went to see Into the Woods at Reading’s high school.  I did so much that this post is getting pretty lengthy. LOL.

June- Two words! BOSTON PRIDE 2010. The Theater Offensive had me leading it’s 2010 contingent in the Boston PRIDE parade and it was amazing to lead the team of interns and to organize the whole lot myself. I did distribute the tasks, but as the leader it was my responsibility to not go over budget and to make sure everyone is safe. One word, now. STRESS. It was very stressful for everyone and I was going insane on the day of the parade because some parade participants did not follow procedures and just had me going bonkers to try and figure out where we were suppose to be lined up. What joy. Well, it was very fun and it did rain, but it was fun anyway. I enjoyed dancing in the rain with the crowd and making a fool of myself. Gosh, at the time of walking in the parade and keeping the float with the group I did imagine what it would be like to have my own nationally syndicated television talk show and how I would be in front of millions of people. It was GREAT.

July- I really like these “two word” phrase things. Here we go: LADY GAGA. Yes! I saw Lady Gaga in concert when she came to the TD Garden. It was amazing! .Period.

Wow that was short, lets continue.

August- A terrible time! I was coming back home and leaving Boston. This was a very emotional time for me well because I let so many people into my heart and I was now leaving them behind. My stay family, the wonderful TTO interns, and Boston itself. Ugh I do not want to think of it anymore, well  Sophomore year commences. Welcome back to PPU! Moved into my new room and met up with MaryBeth and Sarah. We had pizza at our favorite restaurant, Pizza Fiesta!

September- Point Park turns 50 years old! Point Park University celebrated its 50th anniversary with a moon bounce, food, and a rock climbing wall! I volunteered for the event and then went to a lovely dinner for alumni, students, university staff and faculty. It did feel like I was back at Milton Hershey School with the energy of alumni coming back for the celebration, but sadly I was not really back at MHS.

October- I can only think of one super duper event that is worth mentioning! ZOMBIE-FEST. (Sidenote: two words is really fun).  Yeah Madison Toy and I went to Pittsburgh’s Zombie-Fest and then came back to our dorms and got Zombiefied and went back. It was really spooky and a great way to celebrate the Halloween spirit.

November- Thanksgiving was the most surprising effort that exemplifies how cool my friends are! We agreed to go over to the one and only Michael DePiro’s house for thanksgiving. By the way he is a magician and because he is running his own business, I feel obligated to link you to his services. Actorshelper.com and The Miracles of Michael DePiro.  We went to his house and then to my house to surprise my mommy!

December- Semester ends! Nothing happened besides final exams and people leaving for Winter break. Well, Light Up Night for Pittsburgh in November, but I refuse to take Christmas and put it under November. So here is MaryBeth’s and me covering Pittsburgh’s 50th Light Up Night.

Now that 2010 ends, I will make 2011 even bigger and better!

HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE!!!